I have come to recognize that there are forces in the universes that are more proficient at managing details than I am. When I focus on the details, all I really do is limit possibility.
When I concern myself with what the effect of my radiating love should be, I am focusing on details and putting limitations on the effect of my radiating.
If however, I just radiate love, and let the details sort themselves out, or be sorted out by those forces in the universes more proficient than I, then what will be the effect of my radiating? Who knows? And who am I to limit it?
So I just radiate love. That is sufficient. That is the very best I can do.